Listening & confidences
We review your path, your desires and what makes you tick.
The Club · Normandy & Paris
More than a club… A mindset.
I'm Gwenaëlle — your relationship specialist (and your best ally against endless app zapping).
Gwenaëlle — founder and relationship specialist
Why you'll love joining the club
No fake profiles here. We bet on a glance, a smile, a voice — real life. Whether you're shy, outgoing, cocktail-minded or adventurous, I organise moments designed for you:
- Afterworks & dinner cocktails in great spots in Le Havre and Rouen — conversation with a glass in hand.
- Original themed evenings (mysteries, mixology workshops, playful games) to break the ice naturally.
- Well-being and sports breaks to meet people differently — in motion and in good spirits.
The golden rule: come as you are, relax. I take care of the rest and welcome you personally at every event.
Les Inattendus — Club presentation
What is a “relationniste”, exactly?
Think of me as your teammate on this journey. A real professional who truly listens, understands what you're looking for, and guides you — far from dating-app bots.
Thoughtful introductions
Based on your feedback, I create connections that make sense.
Tailored support
I boost your confidence and stay with you at every step.
What if chance did things right?
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The best stories often start when we expect nothing…
Ready to leave your screen and raise a glass with us?
A question? Want to chat before you join?
Call me directly at 06 63 77 98 15!
They talk about us
Local and regional press has covered our in-person singles club concept — not an online dating platform.
They found love through a matchmaking agency — not an online app
Patricia and Jean, two seventy-somethings from Le Havre, met a year ago through Les Inattendus events — far from dating apps.
It takes a lot of courage to leave your screen, meet a gaze and exchange a smile… So much happens in real life, explains Gwenaëlle Gandelin-Huelvan.
REPORT. In Le Havre, she organises meetups for singles over 40
White wine in hand, Sébastien chats by the bar at Théâtre Le Normandy in Le Havre. In a relaxed suit, he came from inland Normandy for the dinner-cocktail evening organised by Les Inattendus.
How to find and meet love at 40, 50 and beyond
Gwenaëlle's bright idea: organise evenings. They're called Les Inattendus — and often, it's when you expect nothing that everything happens…
Le Havre. A love consultant, far from the virtual world
With Les Inattendus, Gwenaëlle Gandelin invites singles to meet through evenings, hands-on activities or sports workshops — an alternative to dating apps.
Follow our adventures
Relive the atmosphere of our evenings and discover behind the scenes on YouTube.
Visit the YouTube channel